12 May 2012

Your Perfect Outdoor Wedding Ceremony

Outdoor Wedding IdeasMany couples want to marry in a beautiful outdoor location, whether it is in a park, on a beach, in the bush or lake or river-side.  A lovely natural setting can really enhance your wedding ceremony but there are some things to keep in mind when you are making your arrangements.
1.       Firstly, it is most important to have a wet weather plan.  If you haven’t made provision for having a back-up plan for an indoor ceremony, it can be very stressful leading up to the wedding day and no-one wants to be drenched with rain during their ceremony. Many reception venues will allow you to hold your ceremony there if the weather is wet.
2.       Make sure that your wedding invitations include the wet weather option, directions to it, and a phone number to call if they are uncertain of where the ceremony is to be. You can leave a voicemail message on the day with details of the location.
3.       If you are happy to go ahead in light rain, or even if it looks like light rain, provide large umbrellas for your guests, and of course, for the wedding party.  They can be hired in a range of colours to suit your colour scheme, or you can borrow golf umbrellas from family and friends.
4.       Make sure that you have permission to hold your ceremony in the spot of your choice. Most outdoor locations require a permit from the local council or national parks. This usually involves a fee. Make sure that you book your spot as early as you can to avoid being disappointed by it not being available on your day.
5.       If your wedding is being held in the summer, you will need to think of a few things to make sure that your guests are comfortable.  Think about whether there is natural shade at the site and whether your ceremony can be held in the shady area. Again you could hire umbrellas or you can purchase pretty parasols quite cheaply & give one to every guest.  Fans can be bought quite cheaply too.  It is really thoughtful to provide bottled water for your guests as they will be at the ceremony venue well before the wedding party and may become hot and thirsty.
6.       In cold weather it’s a good idea to provide knee rugs on every chair.
7.       Check where the sun will be at the time of day your ceremony is being held.  Make sure that the sun isn’t directly in the eyes of the wedding party or in the eyes of the guests.  Nobody wants to be squinting into the sun.
8.       Find out if your chosen venue has public toilets nearby. 
9.       It is considerate to provide seating for older guests even if most of your guests will be standing for the ceremony.
10.   If you are having musicians, you may need to provide chairs for them.
11.   Walking on grass on high heels can be very tricky!  Stiletto heels with sink into the grass which is an ungainly look and will ruin the shoes.  There are several products on the market which are a clear plastic cap which fits on the heel of your shoe with a clear wider base, and which makes walking or standing on grass easy and possible.  Some of these products names are:  Starlettos, Heeline, The Soul Mates.
12.   Check the prevailing winds for your site.  You don’t want the bride and bridesmaids’  hair being blown over their faces or the bride’s veil flying off. 
13.   If you are getting married on the beach or on the water’s edge, check the tide schedule.  You don’t want to be washed away!  Also, it’s worth knowing that incoming tides can be quite noisy, and outgoing tides are less so.
14.   Make sure that your celebrant has a good PA system if you are getting married on the beach. The waves and wind can make it difficult for your guests to hear the words of your ceremony if a PA is not used.
15.  Check with the venue owner or local council etc. to see what decorations are permitted.  Most places allow rose petals, a carpet, chairs, bridal arch, balloons etc.  Most do not allow confetti or rice.   Make sure your styling is well secured so that it doesn’t fly off in a sudden gust of wind.
Parasols are a great idea for a sunny, beach wedding
16.   If you ceremony is very early in the day, or late in the afternoon or evening, it’s a good idea to have citronella candles to keep insects away.

03 May 2012

An Unplugged Wedding

Would you like your guests to turn off their mobile phones and cameras and resist posting photos to Facebook until after the wedding?  An interesting article from Off Beat Bride blog. http://offbeatbride.com/2011/06/unplugged-wedding
Let the bride and groom and the ceremony be the centre of attention.

24 April 2012

Tips to help get your fiance involved in wedding planning

http://theknot.ninemsn.com.au/wedding-planning/wedding-planning/essential-tips/inside-your-grooms-mind?article_viewer_36949_esi=false&article_viewer_36949_page=1

Here is an interesting article from The Knot with some tips to get your fellow more involved in the wedding plans.  As a celebrant, I see many couples and the groom to be can be a little bored with all the details that brides love to have just right for "The Day".  They say things like, "I love her and I want to marry her, but I will leave the planning of the wedding day up her her."  Or, "Whatever she likes, I like!" which can be frustrating to bride who wants his opinion. 

19 April 2012

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What a charming wedding picture by Ben Gross of Instinctive Imagery of Vikki and Greg's wedding at Palm Beach, 23rd March 2012
Richard and Dana married at Clark Park, Lavender Bay. What a great pic by J. Roberts of the wedding party after the ceremony.

Sarah and Jessie married at Mosman Art Gallery.  Their colour scheme was just stunning for this Autumn wedding in this beautiful venue.

Sarah and Jessie after their weding ceremony.  Fabulous photo by Angelica Peady

The Briars at Bowral was the beautiful, country setting for Adam and Nicole's wedding.


14 April 2012

Cost of Registry Office Weddings in New South Wales

The cost of getting married in the office at the Department of Births, Deaths and Marriages in New South Wales

Monday to Friday, 8am - 4.30 pm it will cost you $337 plus cost of Reg.Cert. Total is $383
Friday evening and weekends, it will cost you $430 plus cost of Reg.Cert.       Total is $476

So, why would you go and have an impersonal wedding ceremony in a small office with no choice of vows or other wording, when for a little more you can have your ceremony when you want it and where you want it and have input regarding the design and wording of your ceremony?

Not exactly a romantic setting!

01 April 2012

Another beautiful wedding song FEELS LIKE HOME

Click on the link above to hear Feels Like Home, a wonderful wedding song.

A beautiful song

Click on the link above to go to YouTube to hear Songbird, a beautiful song which I heard as the bride's entrance song at a wedding yesterday.  There are many versions of this song and the one on the link is from Fleetwood Mac.

At the entrance of Wendy's Secret Garden in Lavender Bay

27 March 2012

Ten Wedding Rules you can break


The bride wore red and doesn't she look stunning!
Click on the link above for an article from The Knot about the Wedding Rules you can break.
Red shoes can be a fun accessory. This lovely photography by Curly Tree Photography.

06 March 2012

Summer Weddings

Andrew & Yuliia married at North Palm Beach on a sparkling, Summer's day.
John and Shereden married at Rodd Point. Photographer Rachel Muller

A lovely shot of the newlyweds at Rodd Point after the ceremony by Rachel Muller

Dale and John married in the Devil's Coach House at beautiful Jenolan Caves - Over the Moon Photgraphy

Eric and Kylie wed at Doltone House at Pyrmont Point - an elegant harbourside setting for the wedding ceremony and reception.

Wendy's Secret Garden was the magical setting when Kathryn married Stuart. Their wedding decorators were Belle-Laide.
Jarina and Julian married on a windy afternoon at Giba Park, Pyrmont Point. What fun when the rose petals got caught up in the wind!

Josphine and Amit married at Waterfront in the Rocks in a ceremony which honoured Amit's heritage by using garlands as part of the wedding ceremony. Photograph by Radiant Bride

Emma and James were lucky to have sunny weather for their wedding in a wet week in February. They were surrounded by many family and friends for their joyous wedding ceremony at Nielsen Park. Photograph by Curly Tree

Sneak peak photograph of when Janet & Barry married on the harbour view lawn in the Royal Botanic Gardens in Sydney. Family and friends came from near and far to be a part of their special day. 

Peppers Manor House, Sutton Forest in the Southern Highlands, was the magic garden setting for the wedding of Trinh and Adam.  They incorporated a Tea Ceremony into their ceremony to honour Trinh's heritage.

05 March 2012

HANDFASTING

Handfasting is an ancient Celtic tradition that you may wish to incorporate into your wedding ceremony.
It is ususally placed after the vows and ring exchange as the handfasting ceremony symbolises your commitment to each other in marriage.  Ribbons or cords are used for the tying of your wrists and below is the traditional meaning for colours.

Dark Blue: for a safe journey and longevity
Light Blue: for understanding and patience
Pink: for romance, honour, partnership and happiness
Green: for health, prosperity, luck, beauty and fertility
Red: for courage, strength and passion
Yellow: for wisdom and harmony
Brown: for healing animals and the home
Silver: for creativity and protection
Gold: for unity, prosperity and longevity
White: for peace, sincerity and devotion
This couple had their handfasting specially made for them.  Others may use a plain white ribbon. It's all individual. Photograph from Mint Photography of Randwick.

16 February 2012

More Summer Weddings and Why Do We Get Married

A light-hearted moment in Joanne & Glenn's wedding at Terrey Hills Golf & Country Club

Kasia & Felipe married on beautiful Palm Beach
They thoughtfully provided colourful parasols for their guests to protect them from the sun.


Emma and James married at Shakespeare's Point in Nielsen Park, Vaucluse...a magic spot!


‘Why do we get married?
Because we need a witness to our lives. There are a billion people on this planet so what does any one life really mean?
But in a marriage you are promising to care about everything –
The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things
All of it, all the time, every day.
You are saying –
Your life won’t go unnoticed because I will notice it.
Your life will not go unwitnessed because I will witness it.'

28 January 2012

Marriage by Mark Twain

Rumsey Rose Garden, photographer Jorges Imaging
A Marriage by Mark Twain
Will give a new gladness to the sunshine,
a new fragrance to the flowers,
a new beauty to the earth,
and a new mystery to life.

18 January 2012

More Summer Weddings

Roy and Sandra make their vows

Copes Lookout at Kirribilli was the lovely venue for Roy and Sandra's wedding in December

The happy couple about to exchange rings

Peter & Jinny signing the Register after their wedding ceremony on board the family yacht on Pittwater.
The bride and her father coming on board at Newport
Family members before Peter & Jinny's wedding ceremony




This elegantly themed wedding was held at Terrey Hills Golf Club.

28 December 2011

Summer Weddings


 Claire & Aaron married in a beautifully themed wedding ceremony at Palm Beach.
 Many family members and friends were there to celebrate with the newlywed couple.
Sydney Harbour National Park, Gap Bluff Centre, Watson's Bay was the delightful venue for this joyous wedding day for Claire & David.


30 November 2011

PreWedding Planning Mistakes

Click on the link above for an article from The Knot, Australia (http://www.theknot.com.au/) about what to avoid when you are planning your wedding.

28 November 2011

Christian ministers not compelled to marry same sex couples

Click on the link above for an article about same sex marriage.


Cakes from Gay Cakes in Sydney.

24 November 2011

An interesting article from the Sydney Morning Herald about designer Joanna Johnson

Click on the link above for an article about wedding gown designer, Joanna Johnson,  from The Sydney Morning Herald.

22 November 2011

Chance of rain, month by month, in Sydney

Click on the link above to go to the website of Hire an Umbrella who supplied this rain chart. No matter which month you choose to marry in, always have a wet weather option for your ceremony.
Chance of Rain (Month by Month) 
   January

 38%
   February

 42%
   March

 41%
   April

 40%
   May

 35%
   June

 36%
   July

 32%
   August

 29%
   September

 33%
   October

 35%
   November

 36%
   December

 35%

Late Spring weddings

Lindsay & Kevin on Warriewood Beach, photographs by Harwood Photography
Angela and Dave at Watson's Bay, photography by Mint Photography




Irol and Pete married at beautiful Narrabeen Lake